Guide
Can Mom keep living at home?
A room by room look, the small fixes that matter and how to know when it's getting harder.
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Chapter 1
How do I check each room for safety?
Walk through each room with fresh eyes: entry steps, bathroom, kitchen reach, bedroom lighting and the path between them at night.
Chapter 2
Which small home changes can help?
Better lighting, appropriately installed grab bars, a suitable shower chair and moving everyday items within reach may make routines easier. Ask a qualified professional which changes fit your parent's needs.
Chapter 3
What help can come to the house?
Meal delivery, home care aides, visiting nurses, activity pros and daily check-in calls can all come to the door.
Chapter 4
What signs mean the setup needs more support?
Missed medications, weight loss, falls, unpaid bills and new confusion are signs the current setup needs more support.
Chapter 5
How do I talk about a move?
Talk about what matters most to them first. A move framed around what they gain lands better than one framed around what they lose.
Chapter 6
How do we compare care options?
Compare more help at home, a move closer to family, independent living and assisted living on cost, care and connection.
Questions people ask
Often, but it depends on their care needs, the home, available support and finances. Discuss options with your parent and their care team.
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For information only. Not medical, legal or financial advice. Talk to a professional about your family's situation.
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